By Harshith Joseph
Impressing people by simple tricks is easy. Crack a few jokes, share a couple of stories and people go ‘wow’! But this doesn’t last very long.
To make a bigger and long lasting impression on someone (especially a girl you’ve been eyeing) takes time and A LOT of efforts. There is not one but many tips that you need to follow to even get her to notice you. So when it comes to impressing the girl of your dreams, you really need to get your A-Game on! To make things easier for you, here are the 11 tips that you can follow to impress her, and may be even get her to fall in love with you!
1. Be Natural
Putting on a fake persona is not going to help in any way because girls like straight forward guys who are clear and blunt about their thoughts. You must always be who you are to make her realize that you are honest and not someone whom she can never trust.
2. Be Open, But Not Too Open
By their very nature, girls are intuitive. They like guessing and figuring things out. So if everything is out and clear in front of them then it might not catch their attention. Be the kind of man who gives her something to think about. Maintain a certain kind of mystery to keep her interested.
3. Maintain A Safe Distance
Nobody likes a stalker. Even if you are dating her, your girlfriend will not like you keeping tabs on her whereabouts every second of the day. So if you plan on ‘accidentally bumping into her’ every time she steps out, DON’T! Maintain the distance as getting too close too soon might end up creeping her out.
4. Be Confident, But Humble
Girls love a guy who knows how to take charge of his life. If you know exactly what you want and how you need to get to it, then that definitely is a plus point for you. But in that process, don’t end up being over confident or a ‘know-it-all’ because that is big NO! Nobody likes to have a confused relationship.
5. Don’t Give In Too Easily
Some guys who try to impress girls tend to become really polite and begin nodding their heads to everything the girl says. Don’t do that. Voice your opinions and show that you’re a thinker and not just someone who goes by someone else’s ideas and decisions. Show her that she can depend on you when she’s stuck with a tough decision to make.
6. Be Funny But Not Goofy
You should definitely have a sense of humour. Having a humorous nature is very important as it helps in keeping your relationship alive. When a girl sees you having a jolly time with random jokes, she pictures herself with you in a happy and relaxed environment. Otherwise, she must just end up picturising you as a grumpy old man.
7. Be Open To ‘Family Talks’
Some guys are known to completely avoid any kind of a discussion regarding their family. Girls on the other hand love discussing about their families. So if you shut her out from your personal zone, she might feel like you’re not interested in letting her be a part of your personal intimate life. Be there for her, as well as letting her know you love her with all your heart in a subtle yet sensible way.
8. Be Well-Groomed
By well-groomed we of course don’t mean being in a formal clothing style all the time. Be clean, don’t look like you just got up from bed. A rugged look is sexy but there is huge difference between rugged and simply unhygienic and dirty. Understand that and follow it.
9. Do Not Talk Bad About Her Family
Guys are usually okay with joking about each other’s families but girls are not. Making fun of her family is a sure shot way of bidding her adieu. So be nice and if you have nothing good to say then just don’t talk about it.
10. Don’t Rush
Taking it slow is the motto for girls. Guys who rush things seem too desperate. Remember, ‘all in good time’, so let things take their own course instead of skipping parts just to get where you want to be.
11. Talk About Interests
Tell her things that you like, but more importantly, ask her about her likes and dislikes. Show her that you’re interested in her life and beliefs. But remember to keep it casual and not make it look like an interrogation setting.
So there you go. Keep these pointers in mind and get ready to impress her.
Author’s Bio: Harshith writes about his life experiences/expertise on culture, style, health and wellness. Apart from writing, he sides with fitness and music. Keeping on point his life’s vision, he aspires to equip all with his savviness and share all the exposure he gains to promote a lifestyle of fitness.