How many have been there, don’t be ashamed, raise your hand. It’s happened to most at least once in our lifetime. You meet a person, the convo is good, you may say a little freaky stuff to them in person or over the phone setting the mood for when it finally happens. The moment arrives and BOOM, you just felt it yourself, something was off, this wasn’t your normal performance, you look at your partner for any indication of a letdown, hoping he/she didn’t feel the same but nothing is said.
The next day, you text but the response is not as quick as it normally was prior to your sexual experience, that’s when it hits you, you got dealt the Sex Death Card. You know that card, the one that requires no words or contact. You can text, call, email but you will get no response but your curiosity kicks in and you must know, that they know what you knew all along, you f***** up what you were hoping was not your only shot.
You’re seeking them for answers, just wanting them to tell you the truth, say it to your face but then there is no need, social media is the new form of communication and their status says it all. Damn. Now it hits you like a ton of bricks, someone out there thinks you have no idea what you’re doing in the bed. No matter how childish that sounds that can mess with your ego, now you’re on another mission to find someone and make them pay for your mistakes, go all out, hold nothing back type of sex, the kind you read in Karma Sutra or 50 Shades, you know the mind-blowing sex that makes them get up in the morning and cook you breakfast butt-buttered-ball naked.
But I want to know, what do you do if you experience that? As soon as it’s over do you tell that person or let it go? Do you give them another shot in a day or two to see if it was a one-time thing? Sometimes nerves can get in the way or maybe you’re just not that good. I think you should give them another shot before blowing them off, it’s only right.
With that said, I was wrong in giving her the Sex Death Card, I never gave her another chance to redeem herself, I hope she is reading this article now, “Call me”.