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Relationships: Must Know Tips for Using Sex Toys as a Couple

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Are you and your partner looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom? Though there are plenty of studies documenting what types of sex toys women use, (did you know 78% of women own a vibrator?) , the truth is, more men than ever are welcoming sex toys into the bedroom to make sex more pleasurable for both themselves and their partner.

If this sounds like something you and your partner are thinking about doing, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve got the best tips for couples that use sex toys together.

1. Always Shop Together


If you and your partner are going to use sex toys the next time you hit the sheets, it’s a good idea to shop together. After all, no one wants a surprise they aren’t expecting mid-mood.

Everyone has their limits when it comes to sex toys. Plus, there are plenty of made-for-couples toys that you and your partner might want to check out. Use this shopping time as an additional way to bond and build up the excitement for what’s to come.

2. Make Sure You Have Enough Lube

Think about it: would you ever try to come down a water slide that had no water running? Absolutely not. When you bring toys to the bedroom, it’s crucial you use lube to make the overall experience better for everyone involved.

There’s a good chance one of you might be nervous about this new adventure. The last thing you want is a set of excitable nerves ruining the moment.

Want to get things heated before you jump into your new sex toy venture? Try giving your partner a tantric massage to encourage a true connection full of positive energy.

3. Take it Slow

If you or your partner have very little experience when it comes to sex toys, make sure to take things slow. Try explaining what each toy does and how it will be used. Show each other how to use the toy, set boundaries, and always have a safe word in place just in case either of you really want to stop. Remember, consent is always important, even if you’re a couple.

4. Be Open to Communication

The key to breaking out the sex toys in a couple situation – and having a great time – is communication. In fact, one of the most common problems couples have in their sex lives is the fact that one or both feel they cannot discuss sexual matters with the other. You can’t expect to pleasure your partner if you don’t know what he wants. And you definitely can’t expect your partner to pleasure you if you don’t tell him what you like.

Communication before, during, and even after sex will help you and your partner feel more comfortable about what is going to happen, how things made you feel, and whether specific toys will be used again in the future. If you and your partner know that the lines of communication are always open, your sex life is going to be amazing.

5. Always, Always Clean Up

Okay, so you and your partner have broken out your new sex toy and had an exhilarating experience. Kudos to you guys! Just remember, no matter what kind of sex toy you use – vibrator, dildo, sex doll, or bondage gear – you have to clean up afterwards. Silicon Wives, a leading provider of authentic luxury sex dolls, reminds people that cleanup is not only important for the longevity of your sex toy, it’s important for your health.

And there you have it! Some of the best tips for using sex toys as a couple, whether experienced or not. Remember, sex with your partner is supposed to be enjoyable, exciting, and full of fun. Don’t let a little inexperience ruin it for you.

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